I am out to everyone except my parents and my husbands. I suspect that it is only a matter of time as it is hard to hide a third person at our house all the time, but I am trying to hold off until the fall to tell them.
All my co-workers know and friends. Our family takes care of our child and is a huge help with many aspects of our life. We also are a huge help in their lives and have a lot invested in their presence in our lives. Up until now the loves I have had have been friendships with benefits, but now I am deeply in love and I know it will be for the long haul, it is vastly important that they take this seriously and with that will be the ability to tell them it has been on going for sometime... this fall will be about 6 monthes... long enough I feel for them to know it is serious.