My name is Shelle. I'm currently in a poly relationship as a secondary, but we're both hoping that status changes in the future. My partner has another live-in partner, and as of now he and I have visits weekly or bi-weekly. We are all involved in the BDSM community as well. This is my first poly relationship and I'm struggling quite a bit with it all, and this is my way of reaching out to understand how other people deal with the same fears and insecurities I have.