Perhaps a gentle reminder that the issue is not resolved for you, while stressing that you have enjoyed the time you've had, but you want to wait until therapy discuss it so that the discussion can be as constructive as possible?
I'll get Indigo on here, because he can offer better perspective on what words might be best received by your wife.
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.