Oh good for you! The world definitely needs more counselors adept at dealing with BDSM and queer and poly issues.
I once had an open minded therapist I used for 3 years. She was cool with poly, and with me being a homeschooling mom as well. Then we changed insurance and I lost her. I tried another counselor who, on my 2nd appt, told me married women "should never" get a crush on anyone other than her husband. Needless to say, I never went back to her.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)