I never said that intimacy is not poly. I said the opposite. I said poly is a sexual and intimate relationship. It sounds like he is asking to have sex with his friend. That to me is not poly. Its having an open relationship. Poly is about love and the kind of commitment that goes beyond just a casual fuck out of horniness. Its a lot of work and effort to be certain that everyones needs are met and continue to be satisfied with the situation. Especially after the NRE wears off. I am not convinced this guy is coming from that perspective.
There is a thread that I know of way back called the definition of poly (I think) from way back where we discussed it all.
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