Hi Minxxa,
You sound really grounded in this relationship, it is refreshing to read the compersion in your posts. I guess I'd try and focus on that -- how lucky he is to have a girl like you, who is so loving and supportive of his happiness! Sounds like what you've got is stronger than even a 3-day romp, so rest assured. Good to have the distraction, too -- I can't think of anything you're not doing right, here!