Thank you, both of you, for your wonderful advice. I will certainly take it into consideration.
I did not mean to imply that I would immediately jump into a relationship with both of them--or even one of them. I just want to know if that is something that she would be open to pursuing, because I do not want to waste energy on something that she is completely closed off to. I would much rather be able to focus on getting over him and just being friends with her if that's what's going to have to happen.