Originally Posted by Serendipity
My concern is with the idea that we'll still love each other, but that we won't be allowed to express it, when I've worked so hard for that kind of freedom in my own life.
But I don't think that's a constructive way to be in a happy relationship right now, if my mantra is 'I'll be ok, once its over". I'm looking for a way to feel ok now.
Its obviously stretching my comfort zones, what I'm asking is how do I cope? How do I cope now instead of just waiting for it to be damage control later?
That kind of freedom is not the goal of everyone as odd as that sounds.
If you don't think it' a constructive way to be in a relationship right now than you have answered your own question I think.