Monoman HAHA!! Thanks for that Berserker
Yes you definitely can be mono in a poy relationship. I certainly am and it is almost a joke at the poly meetings I go to because I am so upfront about it..I say it every time during the introductions.
What I can't deny is that I am truly in a poly relationship.
It's really not that big of a stretch and is so natural to me that I am completely oblivious to the fact that my Life Love has a husband LOL!!
I am monogamous but I am not a monogamist. I don't practice the socially defined concept of monogamy. I am wired to love monogamously however.
Don't even think about though..just do what nature intended you to do..love and have fun