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Old 04-27-2011, 11:08 AM
bella123456 bella123456 is offline
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Originally Posted by BFTrick View Post
My last thought bugs me the most. How do I know if I'm poly?
This sentence was the one that struck me.

Most of the people I know are poly in one way or another. Most of the people I know, many of them in long term mono relationships have developed deep intimate connections with other people other than their primary love. In some ways, many people are poly by nature, but not by practice. Many of those people have had affairs, or have not done so.....and have experienced the pain of letting someone they love go because of it.

Sometimes there can be various levels of denial about those connections...or what they mean. Or people can, and rightly so - choose not to pursue others they feel connected with.

In someways, a more important question can be "Do I want to be poly, do I have the skills and capacity to be poly, and could that be fulfilling for me, could I fulfill others that way ?"

Best of luck
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