Originally Posted by JameeDee
We weren't out looking for this. It just found us.
Same here. We never thought of ourselves as poly. We knew about the poly community a little, knew a few people in it, and were vaguely amused by it without giving it much thought. And then we met this woman, and poof, we're poly. That's actually a vast over-simplification of a bunch of pretty traumatic events over the course of a year or so, but that's pretty much how it's turned out now that all that stuff is behind us.
Congratulations on coming out to one of the families, by the way! Sounds like that went really well. Not looking forward to that one too much over here.