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Old 04-25-2011, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit View Post
and only after the shock of something extremely dramatic causes them to evaluate some deep seated parts of themself and the consequences that come with this.

This is how it happened for me. I wasn't always a cheater in my marriage but once you do down that path "and get away with it" it's easy to re-offend. In my case I became more and more self destructive, took irrational paths and finally had the world crash around my feet. ROCK BOTTOM!

I went to counselling FOR MYSELF and figured many things out. I'm a much better person despite my inability to let go of the things I have done in the past...but those things are reminders of consequences and of a time where I was not self aware or healthy.

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