Of course you should be able to go out with friends! That's even a question on okc, do you need me time, or time w friends away from your lover? I think it's quite healthy. And it makes you more interesting... you can share what you did with your h later. Expand your horizons!
Definitely should be examined in your dynamic. It's a shame it has to be a fight, and not a loving conversation about your need for more stimulation from others.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37