Just a word of encouragement.
Originally Posted by Phy
c) No, generally speaking he wouldn't do that. This would be a great impact on his "We grow old together, I raise the kids, we build a house, etc..." He is really traditional and mono concerning this point.
This doesn't have to be a lost dream. There are many good things to be said for three-adult families, regardless of the romantic configurations between the adults. Just think of the child-rearing and financial possibilities. Read redpepper's blog for further encouragement. With enough preparation and commitment, live-in vees can really work.