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Old 04-24-2011, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted by MorningTwilight View Post
Ah, tomorrow. I have to tell my son something lest he try to fill in the blanks for himself and think something really terrible. I don't know what to tell him right now, because I don't even really know myself where this is going to go. I cannot honestly reassure him that it's alright, because I don't know that to be true myself.
How old is he? Why do you feel the need to tell him? It might be just enough to say that you and your wife are working on some issues because you love each other and people change and grow in relationships, but I wonder if he needs to know much more than that -- at least until some kind of agreement is reached between you and her.
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