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Old 04-24-2011, 02:46 AM
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. . . I'd suggest reassuring her that your decision is to stick with her and you won't pursue other women. I'd also suggest doing everything you can to be romantic and affectionate since she's probably feeling pretty vulnerable.
^^Oh, definitely this!!!^^

And give her time.
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