In the spirit of keeping communication open, I'm going to share this thread with him. I think all of you are making pretty valid points. I'm thinking at this point that if he had been more clear to me about needing a break from things, thus going on the fun trip rather than coming to me, I'd be less upset right now. But I also see where my behavior may have made him feel like he couldn't be honest with me (I was EXTREMELY emotional after he canceled his trip to see me). And, of course, I'm still hurting from his choice to go to a concert rather than here. I just don't know.
Hopefully this will get us talking and working things out.
Last edited by mettwo; 04-23-2011 at 09:55 PM.