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Old 04-23-2011, 09:31 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by dragonflysky View Post
Mettwo,
I'm with you on this one. If he could manage to set things up to go to a concert and not be too worried about leaving wife and baby at home.....he surely could have managed to come see you as you asked.
This. If something as unimportant as a concert can get him away from home, then visiting a partner in need wouldn't be a problem.

He's established a pattern. If you think it's going to change, shame on you. What people do is a much better indicator of what they actually think and feel and his actions indicate you simply aren't important to him.
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