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Old 04-23-2011, 09:31 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by dragonflysky View Post
I'm with you on this one. If he could manage to set things up to go to a concert and not be too worried about leaving wife and baby at home.....he surely could have managed to come see you as you asked.
This. If something as unimportant as a concert can get him away from home, then visiting a partner in need wouldn't be a problem.

He's established a pattern. If you think it's going to change, shame on you. What people do is a much better indicator of what they actually think and feel and his actions indicate you simply aren't important to him.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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