i'm from the united states, living in Finland for the past 6 years. in an open relationship which happens to be a marriage, but don't know anyone in this country who doesn't look down upon such arrangements and i'm not so good at meeting new people.
i'm a social scientist, both studying and working as a research assistant. just finished my master's degree and will start my PhD studies in august.
i'm 42 years old and have dated both women and men.
i am a music fanatic, obsessed with all sorts of styles but my background is in punk and rock. but i also listen to 'soft' music.
i am sweet and a good friend, but also introverted.
oh, and i'm female at least as far as my sex organs go. but androgynous as well.
currently bored and spend too much time online.