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Old 04-22-2011, 03:39 PM
MorningTwilight MorningTwilight is offline
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On top of it or not, I'm still terrified at the prospect of telling my wife how I feel, both because I don't want my marriage to end, and because I so very much don't want to hurt her. I can either continue to hurt myself, or I can "come out" and we can deal with it (I say the latter part for the benefit of mono folk who don't understand that this is not a selfish choice--if I could choose, I would not choose to have these feelings. It's only after many years of mistakenly believing that it was a matter of will that I've come to realize that it's not a choice; it's who I am).
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