I really really hope to establish a sexual primary relationship. Not because I feel that my current partners are not catering to my needs
but because I feel I can an even better partner, friend and family member with a primary of my own.
This one girl I hope to do it with is single, and somewhat hesitant of getting into a LDR with a few people because of neediness and insecurity issues that plague such relationships. So I think if we could establish a relationship (primary or just any relationship), she would have the courage and emotional security to pursue other connections from a 'safe base' of having already one person who is available for her, lives in the same town and has time for her etc.
Hmm, what was my point exactly? Oh yes; primaries make better secondaries!