I've got a date with a new guy tomorrow night. Cautiously optimistic. He seems clear about what he wants from a relationship, wants a regular weekly connection. Still, I am cautious, not because of what I am hearing from him, but from the angst and disappointment I've had from others in the past year. Planning for the worst, hoping for the best.
This weekend my gf's bf's gf is going out of town for the weekend and I told my gf she could spend 2 nights at her bf's place if she wanted to. She then invited me to spend Saturday with her and M! I'm excited to get to spend some time with them. I've only really met M once for a couple hours since my gf started seeing him.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships