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Old 04-21-2011, 01:27 AM
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I believe in honesty more than almost anything. But every now and then being a good partner means hiding your feelings. When Gia and I talked about this, which was a conversation that happened online, I was just like "that's totally cool, no worries at all, whatever you need." I won't let her know how sad it makes me, because that would just make her feel bad and wouldn't help anything. There's no accomodation to be made here. So I have to be strong for her and let it go and not whine. I just wish she could see that I'm being strong... maybe then she'd trust me enough to let me be there with her. But if I show her, I'm invalidating the very strength I'm trying to embody. I know I'm being emo about this. I'm glad there's a place where I can let it out. Thanks, polyamory.com
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