Originally Posted by Magdalena
Has anyone else been here before? This would be our very first ever real life poly situation, I am a total newb. Am I more afraid of the fear of the unknown or is it a warning. When do you realize that this is or isnt for you? Like I said in my introduction. I get this intellectually, but the emotional stuff is way more powerful, lol.
Pretty much everybody whose story I have read on the New to Poly -section and whose dynamic resemble yours has the same fears, doubts and questions. Do a tag search on mono/poly (I read you identify as mono from your introductory post) and see that yours is one of the most common situations out there, and others have dealt with the same in the past.