Well, I have tried talking a lot more about poly with the partner, who I will now refer to as cherrytory, as I got her to sign up to the site last night. She hasn't posted yet, but I hope she will later today or tonight.
She seems really confused, upset and finding it all hard to take in. As I expected. I probbaly haven't made it much easier if at all, as you can obviously see, I'm not great at making my points clear. She also seems to be quite sure she doesn't want to be with anyone else. Which makes it a lot harder for me to help her understand my point of view. [hopefully a lot of help from Mono and Redpepper?]
I just really want to find a way to help her understand and accept who I am, but be happy with that too.
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