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Old 04-19-2011, 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted by TL4everu2 View Post
Yes, Geminigirl, we dated a woman who said the same thing. We all seemed to get along just fine, however, she cited the fact that LT and I do too much together, as the reason to break up with us. I really liked her too. But there were issues from the beginning. She would tell LT one thing, then tell me something opposite. So, after about week two or three, I was on autopilot....Hoping that they would start to see eye to eye....but it never happened. Don't get me wrong, I put in the time, and the effort to get them to see things eye to eye, but....There were some significant differences in our lifestyle vs. hers. In the end, it was best for us to all three break up.

So it's NOT all candy and fun.
She would pit us against each other is more like it. She tried changing us a family, ie what we ate and how we parented. We was never going to see eye to eye when she tried to change a family that was not broken. She never understood that.
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