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Old 09-25-2009, 11:47 PM
Twinkle Twinkle is offline
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My husband and I meet way too many of eachothers needs. We have been married for 13 years and we are quite scatter brained when we have to perform some function that the other person usually takes care of. And we miss eachother so much if we spend alot of time apart. However each of us lived on our own for some time before we met and I know if something suddenly happened we would adjust. It is just nice to be there in every way for someone you love and care about. I think it only becomes unhealthy if you feel like you won't be able to function if the other person is gone and at that point I think you need to look within yourself to become more enabled rather than to gather other partners to become dependent on. I always believe you should love someone out of desire and not need.
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