Abandoning me to deal w/his ex-wife and her threats against myself and my children, including two attempts at kidnapping my kids.
Abandoning me to deal with his son who was abusive due to emotional trauma caused by his parents b.s.
Accusing me of cheating for 2 years before I ever did ANYTHING to warrant the accusation.
Going out to the bars 3-4 nights a week to play pool with the guys "cause he was on a league" and expecting me to take care of the kids-but I'm not allowed to go out without him.
Telling me he wasn't going to pursue a relationship with someone-then doing it behind my back.
Telling me he wasn't going to take said person to our house (his choice, not my demand) and then doing it behind my back.
Starting a sexual relationship, making out etc-behind my back.
Creating boundary rules for a "poly boundary list agreement" and then breaking them.
It's easy for him to say that I should just understand when he makes a "mistake", but it's not something he will do in return.....
"Love As Thou Wilt"