I can see how that would be a useful way to start things off. It get everything on the table and out in the open. I agree with RP that I'm not sure I'd call it a date. I think if I were married/coupled, I would probably organize this for a second date or just a meeting after the first date. I'd want to be able to establish a small connection and explore their energy without that pressure first. I do like that TL and LT are being active about expressing what they're offering. Honesty can be difficult to find sometimes. I would imagine that method keeps cowgirls and boys at bay.