Originally Posted by Carma
I have told some of my friends about our arrangement, and the biggest concern they have expressed is that there is no way to overcome the JEALOUSY. They say there's just no way a man can accept another man being with his wife.
Yep, people tend to accept jealousy as a fact of their emotional existence now and forever more. Cheaters have told me (when I asked if they've ever thought of opening up their relationship) that they would never be able to share their partner because of their own jealousy. And when I try to say 'well, there is help to overcome those feelings' they go 'not for me, I'm wired for that'.