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Old 04-18-2011, 07:51 AM
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Default Multiple NRE

Anyone else ever had this happen? Falling into the throes of NRE with several people at AT THE SAME TIME? How do you cope?

I sort of thought that NRE is the poly equivalent of nesting, in that the new couple wants to be together all the time and only has eyes for each other for a while. So now I feel like I'm cheating, both poly and my partners .

Shouldn't this be something unique? Shouldn't this be the phase when we make the foundation for our future relationship? Can I multitask something like this?

I'm afraid that new loves feel cheated out of their NRE if they know I am also all gooshy over someone else. I have to ask, have it out and done with, but how to go about it? Should I just blurb that 'Know what? I have this and this in my life also and we are all very new and I'm just happy and a bit high on endorphins right now. But the high you give is still very special to me.'
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