The oddest response I've gotten so far was when I said that I don't do poly-fi. 'Well then, I guess you are not as committed to your couple as they would want to be to you'. Woot?! I think FMF-triads are still sort of understandable and maybe awe-inspiring to some people, provided OPP is firmly in place. But one woman with two or more guys? Now that's just greedy
A common misunderstanding is that my partners don't know about my other partners and that everyone of them thinks they are the only ones. I sure hope not!