Originally Posted by redpepper
Well my friend. It sounds like you have come to the right place
Your story is not unlike others here who are on a similar journey. Yet there is a big difference, it sounds like you would make a great triad if everyone gave up the lying, deceit and needless assumptions and ownership crap. Ususally when people cheat there is no hope for a successful triad, with you three there is a big difference, because the cheating that is going on is between you all. Only because no one wants to fess up...
I completely agree on you guys could be a great triad. You all seem to love each other very much, why not share it? I think you all need to sit down and have a big conversation about your needs and wants for your relationships, no lying, complete honesty only.