Originally Posted by NeonKaos
Jealousy is fascinating because it totally defies logic and sneaks up on you out of nowhere sometimes.
Best way to phrase it. I woud agree with this.
As to the ops thought on jealous being a signal you aren't being true to yourself. I am not sure i agree. For me it can come up when I am sick or under lots of stress. So while I am being true to myself my environment begin to creates a situation where it thrives.
I think, if most people, used jealousy to gauge their trueness, especially in poly, there would be a lot of single people. I am not sure how well that would work for most people.