Originally Posted by Stupacalypse
I'm glad I came here. Loads of info without the whole "meat market" feel...
Hullo and welcome!
'Meat market' feel is what scares me a bit in the local poly scene. I guess it's especially hard if you are the NEW SINGLE BI GIRL! Unicorn alert everyone! So maybe my perceptions are a bit skewed, nice to know there's a guy out there who is a bit put off by the date&mate ambiance in some poly circles, too.
Now that I'm already lassoed and triaded, I can maybe go next time and have the vacant 'taken and in NRE' stare to scare off potential suitors?
Because in poly, wearing a ring just doesn't mean a darn thing.