I know very little about 2Rings from this forum but I do feel like I have come to know something of you and Kat Tails. I will always try and be impartial because I see that you both have needs and hurts.
While I can understand that you would not want to inflame the situation with her and 2Rings I do think you need a voice too. If KT chooses to read this and is upset by it then that's her choice. I think that reigning yourself in to cause the least amount of pain is a slippery slope. It's like an artificial environment that won't be sustainable in the long term.