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Old 04-15-2011, 08:28 PM
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Tapahtyn Tapahtyn is offline
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just wanted to introduce myself. I'm 33 happily married to my soul mate, but we both went through what we'd now call a polyamory relationship last yr. I need your help in maybe understanding where we went wrong. I look forward to learning more and actually have found a high school friend who is currently in a polyamory relationship to talk to!

My name is tarantula in russia, you pronounce it by rolling the r's

Met a lesbian last year while at another job and just started out as friends even though she had a crush. My husband and I found out how wonderful of a person she really was and I was falling in love with my first female girlfriend. We did everything together and her and I could totally be goofy around each other and she thought my husband was a great person. During last summer, we kinda maybe rushed into it in the fact we didn't have husband and wife time, so we just wanted to be friends. She ended up getting into a bad relationship for 8 months with a controlling girl. She showed back up and I cried telling how we all missed her sooooo much. Now she says she's not ready for a relationship and needs her space. I just don't want to lose her again, she expressed how much she had missed us too but after 2 weeks of hanging out again she's become distant. Sorry to ramble but my heart is broken and my husband knows this. He is very comforting on the situation but we don't know what to make of it

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