Originally Posted by River
I'm more than a little tempted to be at the bar again this evening, just to see if he's there.
Am I nutz? Shouldn't I forget about this unavailable man?
Hmm, that depends on what do you hope to gain from meeting him again. Just kiss? Feel a little giddy? Have some of that self-validation that is oh so important when getting back in the dating game? Make him fall in love with you? Convert him to poly?
From what I've read on your posts, I'd say yes, emotional unavailability is not what you want or need right now.