Originally Posted by stargazer23
... but I can't help wonder: How do you know if a poly or swinger is into you, or just having a good time?
It feels to me this question needs to be restated in various ways, so that it is so
clear what's being asked that contemplating the question can gain some real traction.
What is meant by "just having a good time?" (JHGT) Is JHGT about mere sexual attration / fun without genuine "romantic" feeling / loving intent?
What--very clearly--is meant by "into you"?
I've been with men and women who are obviously "into me," yet who were not so "into me" that they really wanted a "serious" relationship (whatever THAT means).