Originally Posted by younglove
But I want him to branch out and find himself so he knows for sure what he wants. I don't want to hold him back!
Let me first say I am really good at killing off any and all flowers that are entrusted to my care. I give them too much or too little water too late. I do have one survivor that's been with me since I was in high-school, though. He gets into all these funny shapes because I don't remember to turn him towards the sun often enough, so he does it for himself.
By being open and loving you are turning him towards the sun, but you can't really do nothing but to wait for him to branch out for himself. I'm sure you know that. He will branch out when he is ready.