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Old 04-12-2011, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted by NeonKaos View Post
However, what you need to do is make decisions that are RIGHT for YOURSELF, and don't get married or decide not to get married because of other people's opinions or your families' expectations. So far, it sounds like your crises stem from "what will everyone THINK if I do this or that?"

You have to decide what's right for YOU, and start putting yourself first in your life.
Too true!
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Originally Posted by Penny View Post
MrFFR, dude, please use darker colors if you're gonna do the fancy formatting. My eyes are still recovering from the acid green.
Sorry! Since the other thread is closed, I couldn't use the usual technique of quoting. But I wanted the quotes to stand out as quotes and not get confused with my comments on them. I thought that darker colours would be too close to black to make that plain.
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Koifish, the closer it gets to the wedding date, the more disastrous and havoc-wrecking cancelling it will be. The pooch is already screwed here. Now does not seem a good time to get married.

At this point, the wedding seems more about the event than the relationship, which ain't good.

Why do you want to get married now? I think this is a really important question.
100% in agreement. koifish: Pay special attention to the middle paragraph!
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