You do have very few needs love, but we also like to help when you do... allowing us to do that is a joy to us. You'll need to let go of being so adamantly independent as we just won't put up with you doing things on your own when you could use a helping hand
Our up coming poly meeting tomorrow night is about Poly success. I think this whole thread should be read. We have been very blessed and worked damned hard to create that.