To answer your question... I really don't think there has a been a time where I have said, "okay this person is new." I have always kept everyone in the loop when I met anyone, or am interested in someone regardless of where it is heading. That way if the relationship heads down the path of intimacy then there are no surprises. The rest is really just up to the individuals involved and becomes evident with time.
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