Well, if this were me I would avoid him entirely until I gain some perspective and don't let hormones dictate my course of action. It sounds like there is way too much at stake to be messing around with him. I would wonder how much of your feelings are desire rather than love. It doesn't sound like he is all that interested in love anyway if he sleeps around with a lot of your girlfriends. Is it really worth losing their friendship? I also wonder what it is that went on that makes them hate him now. If a bunch of your girlfriends hate this man now, I think I would want more information on that. You could also get hurt by him.
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