Wow, that sounds like a really great talk!
I know Mr. A struggled with "other man" feelings for probably five months. He said the thing that helped him the most was developing a friendship with Indigo. I imagine that this would also help your guy feel a little more secure in your relationship. Such things take time though, and it doesn't sound like he's ready, yet. Patience! Such good news!
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.