Good for you communicating like that! Keep up the good work. You're getting somewhere and really seem to be grasping the depth of poly loving. To bad its with two people that seemingly aren't able to communicate as well as you.
Feel proud that you are able to achieve your poly goal though as you are on the right track. Stick to your guns and make sure all boundaries work for you too. You are your own best advocate.
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