Originally Posted by idealist
so- an asexual person is someone who simply doesn't want to delve into their own sexuality.
I'm not asexual so I shouldn't be speaking for them..but I think they would disagree. They delve more deeply into their sexuality then most because a lot of them spent the greater portion of their life figuring out why they weren't sexual towards others. Please take a look at their site. I don't like possibly misrepresenting them but I do feel protective of any group that understands itself better than any one on the outside could.
You aren't alone in having such a hard time with the concept of people actually not desiring sex...but I have a hard time with the concept of people actually being poly so I can relate to your confusion LOL!