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Old 04-07-2011, 10:25 PM
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I agree with Penny and don't see what you wrote as too unreasonable or harsh. Some people just won't hear what you're saying, plain and simple, unless you put it to them in a not-so-gentle tone. Sometimes people don't take a woman seriously if she is all polite and "non-violent." Often, they need to be shaken up a bit, especially if there's a pattern if ignoring what's been said before or they're sort of lost in their own daydreams, or NRE, whatever. I mean you have to let him know what is unacceptable to you in no uncertain terms. You have put up with enough already.
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