Originally Posted by Ariakas
I am right there with you. I truly dislike people believing there is a single spectrum. I get offended for my parents.
Reminds me of people who are agnostic and atheist preaching their way as the one way to preachers. Serious irony. I think people would find themselves in a much better place if they realized there is no "one way"...
Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I think this is a very important point...I think the natural way is for there not to be a blanket structure or dynamic.
I'm just talking biology. Penis size and shape, female orgasmic vocalizing, "hidden" ovulation, size of bodies, current traditional foraging societies' sexual and parental practices, etc etc. The idea of NOT sharing food and bodies was considered rude and immoral.
Monogamy is "new" and imposed by agricultural hoarding and the idea of ownership, which didn't exist for 95% of human existence. Try not to take it personally, gentlemen...
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