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Old 04-05-2011, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted by JameeDee View Post
On one hand I am so sad that I have to break it off with my girlfriend, on the other hand I am so relieved that hubby does NOT have one.
Is it still possible for you and gf to continue, without hubby? You said earlier in the thread that you weren't even sure you wanted a triad, so why give up the gf completely?
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